..... is not EASY..
First few months, it’s all about adjustment when 2 people live together. I got problems with Azli, because am moving to his 2 years Flat, when my stuffs took all the space, dia agak tense, sebab everything berubahh, Azli rase dia lost control on his own space. Itulah 2 tahun duduk tempat sama tak berubah kan, bila I datang semuaa berubah.
Second, budget. When I asyik swipe his card, he start questioning what things that I bought. Bila I said, groceries, he couldn’t believe it, sebab he used to buy things tak sampai pon amount yang I beli, so my advice, buy groceries together. Bukan sampai situ je, when u do groceries shopping together, itu pon pelik, because, he still asyik menyoal, ‘Why you bought double cream for? Pineapple cans for?
Itulah, kalau dapat husband yang suka makan belacan, nasi everyday, semua local. Hehehe, there’s nothing wrongggg with that, it just, when 2 people live together, dua kepale, lain laahh halnye, that’s why I said to Azli, “Allah knows everything, that’s why you kahwin dengan I, So you can eat double cream & ravioli in your life, haha”
And what facial wipes for??’ No wonder, perempuan memang high maintenance, pads every months lagi, heee see?
I need to adjust things too, I mean, I ni wajib, hanger kena same color, same size, bila Azli just hang his coat in whatever hanger that he can found, its annoyed me! Haha, macam2 kan sebenarnye? Bende kecik boleh jadi besar, but first few months absolutely time to adjust. And, as for me double adjustment, because I left everything back in Malaysia, gave up my career, gave up every weekend balik hometown, jumpa family only in few months time,(I duduk hostel dari form 1, but my family datang visit I every weekend, yes you heard me! Every weekend, macam anak bongsu! Padahal sulung dari 7!! :p :p) So I memangggg sangat homesick in first few months kawen tue, what do you expect when you move drastically thousand miles away? kan?
Next, BIG question. When people asked, dah ade isi ke Nadia? I only answered, "belum, kami honeymoooooooonnnn lagi nie :p " We take one baby step at one time. It’s hard enough for me untuk kahwin as early as 26 and as for Azli, I asked him "Do you want baby now?" His answer: “I can’t get enough of you lagi, I love just 2 of us, we’re in long distance relationship too long” :p
That’s our marriage life so far.
It just my personal experience, lain orang lain lah kan?
Yeay! Almost a year dah kahwin, Alhamdulillah, I'm so grateful! Semoga kekal sehingga akhir hayat ke anak cucu. Amin